Here's How To Achieve A 'Blended Orgasm'
As a man, I am absolutely clueless as to how to give a woman an orgasm.
Most of the time, it’s a big enough job trying to locate the clitoris, never mind actually making her climax.
Usually, I just stick it in and go as fast as I can until I’ve got to where I need to be, at which point I hope off and proceed to never look at her in the eyes again.
Ok, so I might be slightly exaggerating here, but for a lot of men, making a woman cum can be a real problem.
Fear not though men, because I have a vital bit of information to share with you, and it all relates to a little something called the ‘blended orgasm.’
For those of you that don’t know, the blended orgasm is an orgasm achieved through a combination of clitoral and vaginal stimulation.
In fact, combos are the order of the day. Recently, experts have been encouraging women to stimulate multiple erogenous zones – including the ol’ poo shoot – at the same time for maximum pleasure.
Blended climaxes are said to be longer and more intense, so it pays to focus on more than one area.
Apparently, there are several ways in which a blended orgasm can be achieved, so pay attention.
Firstly, there’s the obvious, which involves using one of your fingers to circle around the clitoris or rub it up and down, and once that’s got her going, simultaneously insert a finger or two into the vagina.
You want to curl your fingers up at the end as if to say ‘come here’, because that’s the most efficient way to stimulate the G-spot and bring a woman to orgasm.
The next way to achieve that elusive blended orgasm involves incorporating toys into the equation. If like me you can get a bit pre-occupied during sex – either thinking about the weather or what to get your mum for her birthday – then the prospect of multi-tasking is absolutely out of the question.
Share the work load by using a toy to stimulate the clit as you’re pounding away to your heart’s content which will make it seem like you’re actually good at what you’re doing.
The next thing you want to bear in mind when giving a top notch orgasm is the position. Normally, I run out of ideas very quickly when it comes this, so I just tend to stick with gyrating around on top of her like fish out of water. It seems to do the trick.
Doggy style and reverse cowgirl are the ideal positions for a blended orgasm as they allow for clitoral stimulation during penetration.
Finally, and probably the best way to achieve the best orgasm of your life, is to experiment with your butt hole. I recently did this when I had to review a male sex toy, and let me tell you, it blew my freaking mind. If you’d like to read it, you can do here, but make sure you’ve eaten beforehand.
So there you have, the best ways to achieve a mind-blowing orgasm.
Go forth and satisfy my friends.
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